“A man has got to be something, if he is going to win something.”
Lavinia Goodell, April 1860
From 1859 until early 1865, Lavinia Goodell assisted her father in editing and publishing the Principia, an anti-slavery newspaper, from its offices in lower Manhattan. She also wrote dozens of pieces for the paper. None carried a full byline. Many were simply signed “L.” In the spring of 1860, twenty year old Lavinia wrote a series of articles titled “Chapters to Young Men, on How to Win a Wife” in which she offered some good natured but sly commentary advice on the qualities women were likely to be drawn to.
She began:
She then admonished gentlemen that if they wished to win the hearts of such perfect creatures, they had better make sure they were worthy.
Continue reading →